Time is a BK’ers best friend
The comment I got yesterday reminded me to note this on here. Chapter 7 filing stays on your credit for 10 years, however, the accounts discharged in the filing come off when they hit the 7 year mark. This might not seem like a big thing, but trust me, it does have a positive impact on your scores.
The nice thing about it is that it’s a good way to help you hang in there when it seems like you will be punished for your past misdeeds forever.
Back in 2001 when we filed, I thought 10 years was forever. Now I’m 3 years away from it dropping off my reports and I’m stunned at how quickly the time has gone. It’s a nice feeling, to know that I made it and I didn’t give in to the feeling of hopelessness about credit that I felt after we went through it.
And that brings up something I’d really like to mention. Don’t give in to that feeling of “well, my credit is so bad now, it doesn’t matter what I do.” I’ve seen many posts about that attitude and every single one of them comes to regret it. DH and I almost gave in to that feeling during the “great financial crisis of 2001-2002.” The bankruptcy was not a complete solution for us and we limped along, facing DH’s accident due to uninsured driver, my miscarriage and continuing health problems, and my high-risk pregnancy which did finally end up bringing us DS#1.
But each month after that time we saw a little improvement and gradually we were able to rise up past the bad credit scores and depressing attitude.
Now? Well, now I watch my credit carefully and plan our finances with a firm eye to keeping everything as close to perfect as possible. I accept the strange events that crop up (dog’s vet bill, fridge replacement, my hideously expensive contact lenses because I’m blind as a bat, DS#1 and his ER bill…). I don’t cry over the fact that we can’t really travel and I certainly don’t care that we can’t have a new car. Food is going up (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24127314) and gas is insane. The fact that we’re doing as well as we are is because we haven’t given in to that “oh well” attitude.
Time is your friend after BK. Keep that in mind. Rise above it and make a deal with yourself to NEVER get there again. It’s worth it. I know this firsthand.
As always, keep your credit clean and NEVER, EVER be late!
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